What Should the tattoo on my wrist say?

I am getting a tattoo as soon as I turn 18. Its about 3 years from now but I know i will want a few tattoos but only ones that have special meanings to me. Not something stupid just cuz it looks cool. Each one is going to mean something special which i already have a couple planned out. They are going to be mostly for me, for inspiration, or reminders. I've been through alot in my life but since I couldn't get enough courage to cut myself, I would do eraser burns on my wrists. but i tried hard to not do it anymore then my life got harder and I did it again as release. I was being mentally abused my my family and sexually abused by my boyfriend (at the time). I was always convinced i deserved it, i cant do anything right, hell even my mother and brother told me those things. Srry back to the point... I want to have some words tattood, in cursive, that is inspirational yet a reminder of what Ive been through but will give me enough inspiration to not do it again. does that make sense? so basically all i want you to do is put something of that nature that i would be able to put on my wrists when i turn 18. thx any ideas of what i can put on there? oh and also, i know demi lovato has "stay strong" on her wrists but I don't want that but something with the same idea. that gives her strength and inspiration so something like that but not the same if possible. thx =)